I had a horrible night last night. I walked out with like $28 on a Friday night. The idiot hostess sat a guy in my section 25 minutes before I got to work, so he was obviously pissed by the time I got to his table. That’s just setting me up for failure, folks.
So to boost my morale, get some stuff off my chest, and prepare myself for work tonight, I will share with you my favorite and least favorite things about my job.
NO ME GUSTA!!!!!!!!
1. Cheap tippers! YOU IDIOTS! 15% is passe. Inflation, people! Inflation! (Sub-complaint: Canadians and Europeans who don’t understand that you TIP IN AMERICA because servers make normal hourly wages where they live. This is AMERICA. Fact: I make $4.60 an hour. My friend worked at Chili’s in Dallas, TX and she made $2.18 an hour. Tips are where the money comes from.)
2. Serving women, especially, ladies who lunch. They are demanding, condescending, nasty, and cheap cheap cheap. They expect the most and tip the least. They act like they are better than me. There is nothing like getting bossed around by someone who has never had to work for anything in her life. It twinges.
3. Messy children. Keep your kids in their seats with the food on the table. Are you gonna sweep that mac n’ cheese up? No. I am. I once had this woman let her demonseed run all over my restaurant like it was a private playground. It is RUDE. From what my mom tells me, I am a former demonseed myself and you know what? They got a sitter. I couldn’t behave myself so I wasn’t allowed out until I could handle it.
Which brings me to my next point: Messy adults. #%&@*!!!!!! Didn’t your mother teach you how to eat? I can’t tell you how many thirty-something customers I’ve had that leave the table looking like someone dumped a bucket of pasta and breadcrumbs on the floor. Yucky.
4. Co-workers who don’t do sidework.
5. Co-workers who go on smoke breaks and expect you to watch their tables.
6. When people call me “miss.” GRRRR!!!!! My name is JANET.
7. When the kitchen screws up my food. Very very very rare. But when it happens, man, I’ll tell you that’s annoying.
8. Creepy co-workers.
9. People who come into the restaurant and modify every single thing that they order. Respect the menu, jerk.
10. Typical customers. Like the ladies who lunch: there will always be a caesar salad and a white zinfandel. And water, WITH LEMON PLEASE!! Phhff.
11. When I spill things on my white shirt and have to wear it the rest of the shift.
12. Sharing the employee bathroom with everyone else.
13. When I spill and/or break things.
14. Ditzy hostesses who can’t do their job. Follow the chart! My God!
15. Horrible bartenders that know less about alcohol than me or make you wait ten minutes for a freaking glass of wine.
16. Messing up on a wine presentation. It’s embarrassing.
17. CAMPERS! People who have already eaten, are on their third cup of coffee, and already cashed out. But they sit at the table, chatting. For seriously up to four or five hours. It is so rude. This is not your living room, it is a public space and you are taking up my section. GO HOME. (Reference “Ladies who Lunch” comment.)
18. Cheap, white trash customers who come into the restaurant and try to get their meals comp’d by making the most ridiculous allegations, including but not limited to: “The ravioli was too cheesy,” “The water was too cold,” “My well-done filet mignon took 20 minutes and that’s too long.” If you order something at a restaurant and they legitimately screw it up, tell the server and then tell the manager. (Like if your salmon is hot pink on the inside, or if your soup is colder than your Diet Coke.) But if you just don’t like something then it’s not the kitchen’s fault – you just don’t like it. I don’t like steak or chicken marsala. So you know what? I don’t order steak and I don’t order chicken marsala.
Me Gusta:
1. Good tippers! 20% or more.
2. Hanging out with fun co-workers and having them become some of my best friends.
3. When it’s really really busy and you’re running around doing a million different things – it’s a total rush.
4. Co-workers who help you out when you need it. I love teamwork.
5. Employee discounts on delicious food.
6. Meeting cool and interesting people that come into my restaurant.
7. The type of customer that tries to get to know you and seems to genuinely see you as a person, not their servent.
8. Serving boys, guys, and men. They tip better, demand less, are generally more easy-going than women.
9. All things considered, it actually is decent money. I make around $14 an hour on even a very modest (like $50 in tips) night. Other than engineering co-ops, what other job can a college student do to make that kind of money?
10. Getting dressed up in the uniform – I think it’s kinda cute in an Annie Hall/Diane Keaton way.
11. Flirting with cute chefs. A hot guy that can cook? Sign me up ; )
12. Actually…flirting with everyone I work with.
13. Having other bartenders and servers as customers. They are by far the best tippers because they know how it is.
14. People who say “please” and “thank you.” It goes a long way.
15. People who teach their children to say “please” and “thank you.” Thank you for leading a new generation of polite people. Other parents, please follow suit.
16. Good hostesses: the ones who ask you if you are ready to be sat, don’t skip you in the rotation, and are generally pleasant to be around.
17. Managers who aren’t too good to run your food or get behind the bar and make you a drink.
18. Good bartenders that are able to handle service bar as well as their own customers. Like my girl Cheryl. ❤
19. The fact that serving has helped me grow. I’m a more confident and assertive person – and I wouldn’t trade this experience for anything. Except for the lottery, haha. After college, I will miss this.